One Day In December~The Day That Changed My Life
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One Day in December is a mission, organized by Orly Lyndon, for many of us in the TWIPS community to write an inspirational post or highlight this past year then link to the post before it and the one after it. It has been amazing learning of the other's triumphs and successes over the year and to be fully encouraged for the year to come. Thank you Orly for this bright idea and pulling this all together! Here's my story. Brace yourself....
"Fear is the absence of faith." I've heard it all of my life, yet many of us have a fear of this, a fear of that, or "my greatest fear", myself being one of them. I have two greatest fears, my tire blowing out and crashing on the highway. Well, on May 1, 2011, both of those fears were realized at the same time.
While bringing my son home from college for the summer, the rear passenger tire blew out, just as I crossed the Georgia state line, and caused me to lose control of my SUV. Now, if you know anything about me and my driving, you know I was speeding. In this case, I was going approximately 85-90 MPH. My SUV flipped over three times!! We (myself, my son, his roommate, and my daughter) tumbled through the grassy median that separated the Northbound and Southbound sides of the Interstate, but ALL of us walked away practically unharmed.
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What many of my professional colleagues never knew about me was that I always had a full-time job, while working in the wedding and event industry. At the time of the accident, I was working full-time while trying to build two companies simultaneously, Wrapped Couture and Enraptured Events. I HATED my day job and I was always praying for a way out and a way to get my companies known to the masses. God ALWAYS answers our prayers. It may not be the answer we're hoping for, in the pretty package we expect it to be delivered in, and definitely NOT in the quickness in which we ask. The answer to my prayer was definitely not wrapped up in a pretty package with a fancy bow!
I wasn't severely injured in the accident, but I was banged up pretty badly. Because I was fighting to keep the car in the grass and not cross over to the Southbound side of the Interstate, I swallowed a lot of dirt and grass as we tumbled. This caused damage to my vocal cords and prevented me from speaking for 6 weeks! I was now unable to work. By doctors orders, I was now unable to do the job that I hated and I now had no income! I couldn't speak at all, just barely above a whisper. I could only communicate via email, text message, and Twitter. I literally had the world at my fingertips. So, what was I to do? The answer came quite naturally. Write!
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I started this blog and was later accepted into TWIPS (Twitter Wedding Industry Pals, a great support network of wedding professionals, bloggers, and vendors that support each other in business and life), continued to tweet, and gained a new found level of support that I never had before or thought possible. I now had the time to really devote to growing my companies and bring awareness to them. I was able to attend seminars and networking events that my job would have caused me to miss. Slowly, orders for gift baskets began to come in from across the country and I was commissioned to design several events.
This post isn't meant to be a sad one or one to elicit sympathy. It's meant to encourage you to push through the pain, as I often do. Granted, when my SUV flipped over, I felt like my world had been turned upside down too. In a way, it had. I lost a lot of things but I gained so much more. More than anything, I survived! I realized what's most important in life. I never lost faith or gave up on the career that I'm most passionate about. Being creative is what I am meant to do and where I thrive. Both business continue to thrive and my blog, still being new, has a great readership. I now have what I've wanted, even if it was delivered in a way that I would have never imagined.
For more "One Day In December" posts, visit Emma of Aphrodites Wedding and view her eye candy recap post from yesterday and tune in tomorrow for Ilse's post of her highlight of 2011, over at the Secret Jewel.
Real Wedding~Tammy & Michael Part 2
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In case you don't remember, one of my favorite photographers called me to say that she'd referred my services to a bride who needed decor assistance. She only had the white linen, white napkins, mirrors, chairs, and gold chargers that the venue was offering. She wanted to keep the palette mostly white but in her culture, white is meant for funerals. So, she chose to add pale pink to the mix, which her florist could easily provide. After speaking with her, I was glad to help, but her budget didn't allow for anything grand. No fancy linen, or colored napkins. We kept it simple and elegant, with what I had in my inventory and what she was able to purchase from Michael's. In the end, the color palette was white, pink, and gold. She loved it and I was happy she did!
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She loved caramel apples and because of the Fall season, she chose to give each of her guests caramel apples as favors. I suggested she change the red ribbon that it came with to a pink one that will better match the decor. Because the apple was covered in chocolate and caramel, it also worked well with the gold of the chargers.
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I was so happy that I was able to help on this event. I don't have a lot in my inventory, but it turned out very nicely and everyone was happy.
Inspiration Boards~ A Winter Wedding
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Image Credits: Crochet Top, Cake, Bouquet, Table Setting, Snow Balls, Invitation, Bride, Bridal Bouguet, Room, Centerpiece, Snow Heart, Shoes |
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Image Credits: Baby's Breath, Bridesmaids, Bouquet, Centerpiece, Invitation, Bride, Cake, Scene, Boots |
A Second Dress For The Reception?
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Here are a few tips:
- Whether you choose a long sexy dress or a short flirty dress, choose a dress that will still make you look like the bride. You definitely want to remain the star of the evening, so you don't want to blend in with your guests.
- Consider your reception. Do you have special events planned during your reception, such as a special first dance, like the Rumba, or sorority song to be sung that you'd rather have a more "relaxing" style of dress?
- Consider your ceremony. Is your ceremony location more traditional or have special meaning because your parents were married there and your reception venue is a little more fun so you'd like to like to show more of your personality? Then maybe you'd like to have a more classic traditional dress to get married in "your family" church and a fun and flirty dress to party in.
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If you choose to wear just one dress or opt to do a change for your reception, remember that you're the bride and it's your day. Do what you feel most comfortable doing! Happy Planning
One Day In December
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On my day, I'm excited to share my story and read the stories of my fellow colleagues. Below, you can find the list of bloggers, along with their specific date, that are participating in One Day In December and hopefully you'll find some inspiration that will carry you into the New Year! Happy Holidays!!!
Designing Your Candy Buffet
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Regardless of the theme, every wedding should appeal to the five senses, sight being one of them. If you're opting to do a candy buffet, this is a very large detail that shouldn't be overlooked. It should be visually appealing at first glance. Lets face it, we all eat with our eyes first! It should be placed on a table that has its own space in the room and the table should have coordinating linen.
When designing your candy buffet, consider these things:
1. Make sure that you've chosen containers that allow your guests to see the candy that's being offered to them.
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2. The containers should be of varying heights and widths to give the eyes something to "dance to."
3. Choose candies that matches your wedding or event colors for a more cohesive look. Your table will be a piece of art on its own.
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4. If you choose, you can add ribbon and signage to the jars for a more decorative look. A backdrop is also a great suggestion.
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5. For portion control, consider small boxes or bags so that you'll have enough candy to make through all of your guests.
Guest Book Alternatives
Let's say that you did have all three; amazing photographs, an awesome video, and a guest book. Photographers can do some amazing things with a photograph and videos have now become wedding movies and movie trailers. Why can't you have something more than a simple book for your guests to sign? Guests love to let you know that they were there. In fact, they're quite eager to do it. Why not make it a little more exciting for them to do, while in the moment, and exciting for you after the honeymoon? While searching for some alternatives, I came across some great options.
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If you prefer to have hand written notes on pieces of paper, why not have your guests write notes and leave them in a custom keepsake box. This will allow you to still read them after your honeymoon and still keep them preserved for later reading, time and time again. You can also use the box to write a letter to each other and read during moments when you have to remind yourself how or why you fell in love.
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No matter what you decide to do, do whatever makes you happy and whatever is uniquely you! Happy planning!!
12 Things You Didn't Know About Me
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- I LOVE to cook and experiment with food, especially pastries. In high school, I used to bake and sell homemade cookies to my classmates (my first bite of the entrepreneurial bug). I was forced to stop when the cookies in the cafeteria began to go unsold because mine began to sell out before second period! I took EVERY cooking class that school had to offer and I also wanted to be a chef right out of high school but my family didn't agree with my career choice so I turned down my full scholarship to Johnson & Wales University in Providence, Rhode Island.
- Since I didn't follow my true love, I followed someone else's and joined the medical field. I'm a Registered Medical Assistant and I have a 13 yr background in the medical field. My undergrad degree in is Health Care Administration because I prefer to wear a suit and stilettos instead of scrubs and sneakers. Although medicine came naturally, I had to follow my dream and passion, so my MBA has a concentration in Entrepreneurship.
- Because of my background in medicine, I have a fondness to pens!!! Like Jenna, I like to write with my "favorite" one at the moment and will only use that one until I choose another. I carry my pen with me and will even sign the receipts with it at the check out line. I'm often laughed at, but I don't care! :-)
- I love TV and some of my favorite shows are medical shows, like Grey's Anatomy, and Private Practice. I also love the cooking shows like Top Chef, Iron Chef, Chopped, Cupcake Wars, and the list goes on. Don't get me started on the wedding shows!! Let's just say, I watch ALL of them EXCEPT Bridezilla!!
- I have over 100 pair of shoes but only 2 of them are flats and I keep them all in their original boxes. To me, there is just something different about the stiletto that says power, and from an early age, I have loved high heels. What girl doesn't??? I graduated high school with 96 pair of shoes and was devastated when I wast told that I wasn't able to take them all to college with me.
- I secretly want to be a model for a day because I love my smile and I think I have a nice enough fave at the age of 39!!!! Whether my hair is long or short or if I'm wearing my glasses or not, my appearance is unmistakable. I had the opportunity to do so at a the open house of a Randi L Moore's bridal gown salon. I had a blast! To see the photos go here.
- I'm a hopeless romantic!!! I truly believe in love and feels that, in most cases, love can conquer all. I got into planning weddings because I always dreamed of my own and always had an eye for the details. I've always liked putting parties together and wanted to be a part of someone's special day. There's no more of a romantic party to plan than a wedding!
- I'm an avid reader. I've been reading since middle school and if the book is good, I can read the entire book in one day. My children love to read and still love to go to the library. They too can read a book in a day. You'll find lots a books in my house as my dream is to have my own library in my home.
- My absolute favorite place to be is the beach. The water has always been my place of solace. So naturally, my favorite vacation spots have water nearby. Too bad I don't know how to swim!! That's on my to-do list for 2012
- I love to dance! My goal is to learn a few ballroom dances, especially the Rumba. This is my favorite of all of the ballroom dances and the most sensual. This is the dance I plan to do as my first dance when ever I get married.
- I love the sound of the rain but I hate to be out in it. I have a CD titled "Thunderstorms" and when I have trouble sleeping, I pop it in and fall right to sleep. Sometimes it sounds so real that I have to look outside to see if it's really raining, lighting, and thundering. LOL
- Spring is my favorite season. The warmth of the winter is slowly fading and new life is beginning with the blossoming flowers. Since a little girl, I love the gentle breeze that kisses my cheek and always thought that God was planting soft kisses and assuring me that everything was going to be just fine. I still feel this way today!
Flower Girl & Ring Bearer Fashion
Do you want the flower girl to have a dress that mimics your own or one that's close in style to the bridesmaids? Or, would you prefer one that's a combination of the two but mostly falls in line with the theme of the wedding? Here are a few fashion forward options to help you when making your decision.
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Is your wedding more laid back and you just don't think the ring bearer will tolerate a tuxedo very well? Is there something special incorporated into the attire, such as a cap, that you'd like all the men attendants to wear during the ceremony? You can still have a classy ensemble without the fuss of a classic tuxedo. Here are a few options.
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Lipcolor That Lasts!
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I may have found the solution! Whether you like the shiny look from lip gloss or the matte look from lipstick, L'Oreal Infallible! I own both the lip gloss and the lipstick (the Le Rouge Collection). The gloss is said to last up to 6 hours and the lipstick 10. I've put them both to the test and I'm a HUGE fan! With over 30 colors to choose from, there is something for everyone and the colors are vibrant.
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I can definitely say that this is a must have for those that like to put on make-up and not have to constantly check it or reapply it. It's great for nights on the town, all day meetings (which a lot of us have), and the all important wedding day! I can't say if either will stand up to "You may now kiss the bride" but you'll definitely get hours of wear out of each of them!
Pumpkins Drinks For The Holidays
While looking for something new, I came across two drinks that I'm pretty anxious to try. The first, Pumpkin Eggnog. For the holiday festivities and those that just aren't into drinking alcoholic beverages. Eggnog is one of my favorite drinks at Christmastime and having a reason to make and drink it at Thanksgiving is an added bonus! The other, Pumpkin Spiced Tequila. This keeps in line with the festivities but of course packs a little punch! It can also serve as an after-dinner dessert drink. My family is big on coffee after a meal, so why not serve a coffee with a kick?
Both recipes follow. I hope you enjoy because I plan to!
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Pumpkin Eggnog:
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Pumpkin Spiced Tequila- Source Pumpkin Spiced Tequila:
3/4 cup cream
2 Tsp Torani Pumpkin Spice Syrup
1/4 cup sugar
1 tsp vanilla extract
1/2 teaspoon cinnamon
1/2 teaspoon pumpkin pie spice
1 1/2 cup freshly brewed hot coffee
1/4 cup Sauza Blue Tequila
Whipped Cream and cinnamon sticks
Preparation:
In a sauce pan, combine cream with pumpkin syrup, sugar, vanilla, and spices, and coffee, until hot. Divide between two mugs. Add half of the Sauza Blue Tequila and stir. Top with whipped cream and cinnamon. Enjoy!
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Real Wedding Tammy & Michael
She came to me with a florist, hurricane vases and mirrors for centerpieces that were provided by the venue, along with the gold chargers, candy apple as her favors, and little money for anything else. She had no idea where to go from there but wanted it to be special. I only had approximately 14 days to put something together, so I took what she had and what I had in my inventory and attempted to give her a ballroom that she'd love, by adding my vases, votive candle holders, and crystal beading, and I had her change the red ribbon on the candy apple to pink (since they were covered in chocolate). There was no special linen or grand overlays but in the end she was happy and I was glad to be a part of her day.
Here are some of the pictures I took with my cell phone.
Napkin Creativity
Have you planned are garden themed event that’s full of flowers and floral décor accents? Why not incorporate a rosebud folded napkin to top off the place setting?
Is it a Holiday party and you’re entertaining family and friends? You can certainly dress up the dining room table with this napkin fold.
Personalizing Your Tables
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If you want to go a different route altogether, name your tables. Do you travel a lot? Do you love animals? Love architecture? Or, maybe you're just wanting to capture the sentiment of the day. Whatever the case may be. Let your imagination run wild and incorporate that into your table number or table names. This will show more of your personality and your guests will love it too!
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Engagement Chemistry
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Taken by the very talented Leslie Marie Photography, these photos are absolutely stunning! The couple look so connected and so into each other that it makes you just want to buy whatever they were selling, whether it be the jewels on her neck or the gown she's wearing! Don't you agree??
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Purple & Silver Inspiration Board
I have two brides coming up with the exact same color palette of eggplant and silver but one is not sure what to do with it. I put together an inspiration board based on her want of a silver cake, purple and silver candy buffet, purple signature drink, purple stemware, eggplant dresses for her bridesmaids, grey tuxedos for the groomsmen, and a white bout for the guys. I think it has everything she'll want and since we as wedding professionals tend to see the overall big picture, I'm sure she'll love the end results!
Photo credits: Men's Bout: www.Fleurology.blogspot.com Room: www.DavidTutera.com Place Setting: www.StyleMePretty.com Purple Cocktail: www.Delish.com Purple Bouquets: www.Tumblr.com Silver Favor: www.NuptualKnickKnacks.com Wedding Cake: www.Google.com Bride with Bouquet: www.AllowMeEvents.com Bridesmaids: www.StephanieWilliamsPhotography.com Pail of Hersheys: www.WeddingsbyColor.com Invitation: www.Etsy.com Purple Glassware: www.Pier1.com
Thanksgiving Tablescape
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I was inspired by the first Thankgiving and the harvest that came with it. People had to work hard for the food that they put on their tables and they were grateful. I wanted to incorporate some of those things into my tablescape and pay a small tribute. I even included a feather in my floral arrangement to represent the turkey. I hope you like!
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The Unity Cross
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This represents two lives joining as one and held together by God, the man, and the woman. So often, we get caught up in the acutal wedding that we tend to forget that the marriage should last far longer than one night and something that should be worked towards everyday. The Unity Cross can serve as a constant reminder of your vows. Take a look at the video below to see firsthand.
A Princess & The Frog Baby Shower
I didn't take the theme too literal, but chose to stay with a lime green and lilac color palette and pull from the "swampiness" of the movie. I used lime green table linen with lilac napkins, cool water roses and green pompns that I submerged in river rocks and bear grass that I sat atop a sheet of moss for my centerpieces, and I folded the napkins in a lily fold to add another floral element.
I'm looking forward to the photos but here are some that I snapped myself. I hope you like!
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